I've always been a sports mom. I think sports are important in this day & age - just so the kids stay busy & hopefully make better choices, knowing their will be consequences for their actions.
I also have felt that sports / coaches can break or make a kid. I've seen it happen, way to many times. With saying that I've been a baseball mom, a softball mom, a soccer mom, a football mom, a bowling mom, a basketball mom & a wrestling mom.
Adrian & Elijah have tried many of the same sports that the others have played. I will say that having ADHD makes a huge difference in the kid. Adrian has tried baseball- not enough action to keep him paying attention & then when the ball comes there are way to many decisions for him to make- do I tag, where do I throw, aghhh what do I do??? He played soccer & honestly did good and loved it but was frustrated with some of the kids on the team, cuz they weren't as mind set as he was. Basketball was ok, but didn't tickle his fancy & then came football.. He was so excited but by the end of the season he had figured out, he would get too confused on what he was supposed to do so he came to the conclusion that football probably wasn't the sport for him. Now wrestling - he liked... One on one, fast paced, easy to focus. There were 2 things that were the downfall. Practice was from 7-8 at night. It thru his sleep pattern into tizzies which completely plays havoc on his ADHD & by the end of the wrestling tournaments - he was totally wiped.
Now Elijah - He liked them all... He loved soccer, and baseball was ok - a tad boring he thought & loved basketball.. As for the coaches - the kid never stood still and has a hard time focusing to follow directions... And wrestling, loved it and was proving to be a good wrestler.
Well, after soccer & football this past fall - we took winter off. Knowing that come February we would be back on the matts for wrestling. Well, the older kids had been taking the younger ones bowling. They found out there was a league on Saturdays & so wanted to do it.. Well, I did that same league as a kid all thru highschool, bowled on the highschool travel league and continued to bowl as an adult. I gave it up when I took on Adrian and Elijah. So you could say it's in my blood. What the heck $6.00 per kid on Saturday's .. Starts at 10:30 done by 12:30 or so. Perfect. Well then we find out they get 3 free games during the week.. AHHH practice..
Well, lets just say that with all the sports options out there, they've decided to give up wrestling, give up soccer & continue to bowl.... In the past two months, it's amazing to see how much they have improved. Elijah started with an average of 30 (not good but I wouldn't allow him to use bumpers) but his average is now 45 & will continue to go up because this past Saturday his lowest game was a 70 & his high was a 90. AWESOME!!!! As for Adrian he's amazing too.. He started with a 60 I believe and his is up to a 72 & his games for last weekend were a 70 , a 90 & a 110...
As for equipment, I swore I wouldnt' buy them a bowling ball for a few years but then that is all Elijah wanted for Christmas & after Elijah got his - Adrian was determined he needed one too.
After I got to thinking about it - What is the difference.... In every sport I've listed above - I had to buy either cleats, mitts, wrestling shoes, sign up fees & travel every weekend & during the week. so really a $50.00 bowling ball that will last them at least 1 yr.. .I'm still coming out ahead. So yes, the both now have their own ball & bags... and are very proud of them.

I love it ... we try to practice 1- 2 days a week right after school, and then compete on Saturdays. It's great fun, it's cheap family entertainment, it doesn't affect their ADHD sleep schedule, med schedule at all & they are feeling like they are accomplishing something that makes them feel good... I think we found it !!!