My dryer has gone kaput...... So today I was sitting in my car patiently waiting for the clothes
to dry at the laundry mat, I began reading a "Chicken Soup for the Soul" book enititled " Life Lessons for Busy Moms". I've always enjoyed the Chicken Soup for the Soul books but this one seems to be written about me, you and every other busy women out there. It's nice to be able to relate to something & actually be able to sit back & say "OH MY GOSH, I"M NOT GOIN CRAZY".....
Life Lesson #1 - Celebrate your achievements as a busy mom....
We all get caught up in the "perfect mom syndrome". We try so hard to make sure we do it all, whether it be working, attending all the kids functions, making sure they have clothes to wear, a hot meal prepared. And then instead of applauding ourselves for a job well done, we find things that we could have done better. We tend to lack in the ability to self - nurture and show compassion toward ourselves. "THIS IS ME!!!!!"..... "OH MY GOSH... THIS IS ME!!!!".....
Now that I've identified this... Here are their suggestions:
CELEBRATING YOUR OWN SPECIAL SELF:.....
a) treat yourself to a massage or a facial (not me - don't like to be touched *lol*)
b) play your favorite music softly during while enjoying a "quiet hour"
c) Bake your beloved family recipe handed down 3 generations
d) Give yourself a latte break after spending 24 hours nursing your child thru the croup.
SING YOUR OWN PRAISES:....
a) Congratulate yourself and your children when they achieve a new accomplishment
b) Recognize the ways you support your children when they achieve academic success
c) Recognize the ways you support your children when they achieve acts of kindness....
Hmmm... kindof sounds like we need to take a little bit of time each day for ourselves and
praise ourselves not only for our accomplishments but for our childrens......afterall we are the ones that stand behind them.....
Well, I think I will share bits of pieces of this book ...... the topics are endless & oh so reflect on all of us busy moms or atleast on me...,..... clutter, organization, conflict resolution, finding our identity,......
School starts tomorrow .... Hope everyone has a great morning & a great first day.....